I get the impression that there’s still a stigma attached to strictly online connections. Like they’re somehow invalid.
I disagree.
For example, when somebody subscribes to my e-mail updates they’re given a unique fact about me and asked for one in return. I’ve received some really nice responses that:
- I don’t think I’d have received in an initial face-to-face meeting. Ironically, the anonymity actually breaks down the barriers of anonymity to forge a closer bond.
- Go really deep. Similar to #1, but it’s important enough to reiterate.
- Are from all around the world. In other words, a face-to-face wouldn’t be feasible. Should these relationships be written off due to geography?
While I prefer face-to-face to enhance a connection, I won’t disregard a digital connection as shallow. I’ve met far too many great people via digital channels to think otherwise.
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I agree with you Karol, there is no need to disregard the digital connections that we make. I believe that it doesn’t matter how we connect as long as we can form a true bond with the other person. Besides staying open to new ideas and forms of communication can give us a powerful edge in the modern world, not only for business but for personal growth as well.
Besides, we never know when we can meet someone face-to-face, in our world that can happen too, and it can feel as meeting an old friend which is already part of our life instead of an awkward moment with a stranger.
You have traveled a lot Karol, I believe you may be able to share with us how you felt when you met face-to-face with someone you had a long time talking using a digital way.
I fully agree meeting someone offline after knowing them online can feel like old friends. It’s really pretty spectacular when that happens.
I have found some resistance like that and my answer is: so, all face-to-face relationships are deep? And meaningful?
I am not even talking in cases like when your girlfriend says she loves you and the next day dumps you: many of the people we meet never become truly engaged with us. Most do not care, many do not how.
There is the word «acquaintance» for some reason and it was not invented in the Internet-era.
Great points Pau. I have nothing of consequence to add to it. But thank you for fleshing out my thoughts more deeply.
New to this digital world, but it seems like a way to start a relationship in an honest way. It sure does help when one is shy and has trouble even saying hi to another one in person…Hello everyone. This seems like a good place to start losing the shyness.
Midge
Hi Midge!
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